COMPATIBILITY vs COUPLEBILITY

Compatibility based on personality traits alone, is overrated and unreliable in predicting success in marriage. Rather, increase your COUPLEBILITY: the sustainability of being in a committed and loving relationship.

 

Pre-marital Mentoring

You can never be fully prepared for marriage, but you can…

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Using the PREPARE Customised Relationship Inventory, we will explore the following aspects of your relationship:

  • Communication
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Partner Styles and Habits
  • Financial Management
  • Sexual Expectations
  • Marriage Expectations
  • Relationship Roles
  • Family and Friends
  • Leisure Activities

My standard rates apply.

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Marriage Mentoring for Couples

pexels-photo-54278If you have ever embarked on a long road trip, you’d know that some planning will make it more manageable and pleasant. You would per-determine where and when the pit-stops would take place – a time for refreshment and to stretch those legs. At the pit-stop, you will be served by those selling food, drinks and other necessities.

The Marriage Journey is long too and you would be wise to schedule ‘pit-stops’ to refresh, to revitalise, and to re-connect. As your Marriage Mentor, I will be there to meet you and:

  • monitor the vitals signs of your marriage;
  • share with you time-tested principles for making marriage work;
  • impart techniques in conflict resolution;
  • help you grow closer as friends;
  • guide your preparations for parenthood.

My standard rates apply.

Contact me today to start the process.

Marriage Mentoring for Parents

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Congratulations! You’ve become new parents (or will be soon). It is a joyous ocassion and can be a trying one too

Research has found that 69% of couples experience a dip in their marital satisfaction within one year of having a child. Most couples, who have an average marriage to begin with, do not recover after that. Before long the second child comes along and the marriage takes a hit, again. It is so easy for couples in this state to drift apart and go their separate ways eventually.

This can be prevented.

Marriage Mentoring for Couples will prepare you to face and overcome the combined challenges of marriage and parenting. You will be better at communicating with one another and thus reducing the frequency and intensity of conflicts between the two of you. You will form new rituals that connects and unites, discover new meaning to family, money, work and others. Last, but not least, you will be equipped to raise an emotionally intelligent child.

Check out my standard rates.

Contact me today to start the process.

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